Archive for July, 2009
The methods I used to get my wife back are little known and often described as controversial, however I don’t agree.
If you are in the middle of a breakup you can make one of two choices. You can either try to get her back, or you can give up and walk away.
If you’ve taken the decision to move on you gotta ask yourself if it’s really the choice you want?
Many breakups can be reversed. Even ones that look totally over. It just takes some effort and the right game plan.
I used an off the shelf – get your ex back – system that I found on the net. Yes believe it or not there is such a thing. I know I was mega sceptical.
I made a decision to try and get my wife back. I didn’t see I had anything to lose. She was already gone so it was worth a go.
In the system I bought, it had a very appealing section that covered psychological mind moves. Things that we could use on other people to coerce them to do what we wanted.
It wasn’t anything heavy duty or wrong, it was simply the use of words and phrases and other little tricks that make us all respond to in a certain way. Advertisers use these things all the time.
It’s a known fact that you could never force someone to do something that they wouldn’t normally do using hypnosis. So I think these crafty psychological tricks are pretty ok.
I used a few specific psychological moves in the overall system that I used to get her back.
One trick was to leave a message on her answer machine that included info that would make her curious. The idea was to get her to call back out of curiosity without actually asking her to call back.
After that she called me a few times more and I made sure she could hear her favorite song playing in the background. The idea being to make her think of me when she heard that song.
It was a succession of small steps after this that built up into bigger ones. First coffee, then a casual date, then a meal at a nice restaurant.
And these steps finally resulted in her moving back in. But by the time we were at this point the last big step didn’t seem all that big to her as she had been – programmed – by all the smaller steps.
