Broken Heart Secrets

The last thing I thought when I split with her was that I’d get my wife back. But surprisingly (for me) it happened.

I was so distraught I just did not have a clue where to turn. I spent ages looking for articles and stuff to help me get over her but what I came across was info on how to get her back.

Now I’m the biggest cynic in the world. I would bet on this info being a load of old bull. I decided to throw forty bucks away and give it a try.

It came with a few extras and one of them was a report on how psychology works in our lives. It explained how with subtle hints you can almost mind control people.

I was quite impressed with this part of the package. I connected with these tactics almost immediately. In fact I recognised some of them as things I’d used on my kids to get them to do stuff they didn’t want to.

The old reverse psychology stuff is used all the time, everywhere. Imagine you are going on a run and you try to get a pal to go with you.

They aren’t very keen on the idea so you hit them with the old “it’s ok if you aren’t physically up to it” line. They come straight back with a proud “of course I am, when do we start”.

We played the psychology card here. Using their own pride as the tool against them. These same tricks can be used to get your ex back on track.

I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!

My ex called me back the next day. But more importantly she called me to ask about me, how I was, what I was doing. She didn’t consciously realise I’d planted the seed in the message the day before.

The day I left her the message I didn’t ask her to get back to me, but I was pretty confident she would. And I was right on that point.

After this it was pretty easy going for us as my wife was convinced she’d made the first move. She hadn’t, I had. But I’m not going to remind her.

There’s me starting out with a view to getting over her. A complete reversal had me looking to get my ex back. And it worked pretty good for me.

If it hadn’t worked, as I expected it not to, I’d have taken the writer up on the guarantee and gone and watched a game!