Broken Heart Secrets

When my lover left me, I was obviously shattered. It was so difficult to accept that the girl I loved and cared for so much, no longer nurtures the same feelings for me. Whatever be the reasons for her harsh decision, I had two choices before me. Either regret too much over what had happened in my love life or to firmly take control of myself. First, I accepted the bitter truth although with a heavy heart that I no longer have my lover by my side. I initially dwelled in the beautiful memories of our togetherness over the years that we spent with each other. But at the same time, I started introspecting over the relationship with her and took a neutral view of the bad incidents that led to our broken relationship. This way I stopped feeling victimized, in the sense that I realized how at times, I too had been unfair to her. I took this realization in a positive way with the objective of not feeling very guilty about it but to prevent me from repeating these mistakes ever again in my life. I immersed myself in all the other things that I always wished to do in my life like spending more time with my friends and work-place colleagues, pursuing my long lost hobbies of reading books, traveling to far-off places in my country, and concentrating more on my career to reclaim my self-respect through successes in my job. This way I diverted my attention in my life to other important things, which are as vital as your love relationships for a fulfilling life. Today, after the bad memories have faded away, my soul still believes that I would again find a loving girl who understands and respects me for what I am, and this time I would take all the care in this world to be with her forever.