If you have just broken up, now is a dangerous time for the future of your partnership. Your deeds in the coming days and weeks are going to have a large effect on if you get back together or not. Don’t let doing silly things mean you can’t get your ex back. The following three negatives should be avoided.
1. Don’t phone your ex. This might seem crazy, but it will only push them away further. Continual harassment by telephone won’t help you one bit to make up. A load of calls everyday will make them feel scared, sick and weary. You don’t need your ex to feel this way at all. They must have time alone to think about your past. They will be recalling the bad times and good times at this stage, however harassing telephone calls will only have them focus on the bad and strengthen the decision. This isn’t how to get your ex back.
2. Don’t be needy. There is nothing worse than hanging off an ex and proclaiming how much you need them. It would be hard to make it worse. When you begin to look like a kind of immature person who cannot stand on their own two feet with some self-respect it will only mean you look crazy. You need to attempt to seem [like as if] you’re all right about things. This is a good way to begin to win your ex back. Appearing like an emotionally needy person at this time will place a lot of pressure on your ex to support you when they will want time to think about their own needs.
3. Don’t plead with them to return. This would be a disaster just following a break-up. You need to keep it in mind not to go down this road, however real you feel, because there is only negativity about it. If you act like this it looks like you have lost control and so will be an ongoing problem in the future and this isn’t a lot to be happy about.
So don’t phone your ex and attempty to switch off the taps on your feeling just after a break-up. It is this time that you need to be preparing to win your ex back. Do more positive things at this time and you can work towards salvaging your relationship. This is how win back your ex.
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